Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Value of Marriage
I got carried away reading my Cosmo last night that I didn't post a blog. But I did come across an inspiration for a blog. There was an article discussing marriage especially in Hollywood. It talked about the phenomenon that seems to be going on now where many stars are having children and cohabitating without being married. They had quotes from stars saying that they didn't feel they needed a ring to be parents. I disagree. It's not that I think you can't have kids without being married, it happens. But I do value the importance of marriage and I think if you love someone enough to share your life with them and to give another life, you should be married. I'm not married, obviously, but I can imagine what it's like. When you're married, it's a binding thing. It's not something to be taken lightly. Once you're married, you can't just break up because of a little fight. You work things out when you're married. Not that you should cheat on someone when you aren't married, but when you are married it's like taboo. You don't cheat on your spouse. Of course there are always going to be people that cheat, and get divorced, but I'm speaking of what marriage SHOULD be. I think that's why there is such a high rate of divorce in this day and time. People don't value marriage. They rush into marriage without thinking things through. It's a shame that Hollywood seems to be the role-model of our society. Celebrities live in a fantasy world. It's pretty much like they live in one of their movies. They do things that you just don't do in real life. I just tink it's a shame that they are bringing these views of marriage out as a "new way of living."
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I definitely agree with you Emily! I do not think that in today’s society people take marriage seriously enough. Especially on the part that when people are married they are supposed to learn to work small arguments out instead of just breaking up. I think that now days too many people give up way too easily.
Marriage is not valued anymore. You are right. People are always rushing into marriage before making sure they are ready and later getting divorced or like the celebrities you talked about just not get married at all. It is terrible that people would want to bring up kids in such an unstable family. Kids should grow up learning about true commitment.
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